Relationships

If you're someone who finds it hard to speak up, there are often a number of factors at work, but learning how to gain confidence makes a huge impact on changing your quality of life.

[captionpix align=”right” width=”250″ imgsrc=”http://www.janeunsworth.com/wp-content/uploads/happy-couple-250×167.jpg” captiontext=”Listening Is Key”] Remember that golden-oldie, but does your life-partner never seem to hear a word you say?  Or you them? Often in partnerships, especially loving ones, the boundaries can become blurred. Loved ones can make the classic error of thinking they know what you want, even what you think, about …

Blaming others Have you heard that saying … ‘I blame the parents’ … I imagine we all have. What does it mean though … when does a child’s action cease being the parents responsibility and start becoming the child’s?  Interesting question. Lyndsay Lohan Lets take Lyndsay Lohan … although she’s not your average person, a …

[captionpix imgalt=”Blaming Others” imgsrc=”http://www.janeunsworth.com/wp-content/uploads/when-a-relationship-ends.jpg” imglink=”http://www.abcsimpleas.co.uk/mending” captiontext=”Whose To Blame”] When you think about blaming others are you missing the point? What point you may say! The point is the learning.  And learning is some of what life is about. Take me for example, I’ve always been what you might call a perpetual student, and love learning, …

Valentine’s Day is here Its Valentine’s Day and I found a short poem signed simply Bob … I Want to be Your Valentine Oh precious oh precious please be mine I want to be your Valentine I’ll do anything to be your rose I want to be the Valentine you chose Hold my hand and …

Blaming What is it about ‘blaming’ that helps us feel more justified about being right?  But does it help to blame others when ultimately it leaves us feeling flat?  Why is it so much easier to resort to blaming others instead of looking a bit closer at what’s really going on?  We’ve all been guilty …

Don’t blame me Its that word blame and why do we do that?  Has something been wired into our DNA (lol!) that finds people spontaneously defending an action, or even a sentence that conflicts with something or someone else? Yet we’re often convinced that we’re ‘in the right’ aren’t we?  To the point where we …

[captionpix width=”250″ align=”right” imgalt=”What Is Confidence” imgsrc=”http://www.janeunsworth.com/wp-content/uploads/paul-mckenna-ps-200.jpg” captiontext=”A Confident Paul McKenna” imglink=”http://www.abcsimpleas.co.uk/instantconfidence”] What is confidence and its importance is one of the keys in how we go about life, the way we interact with others, our appreciation of others alongside our willingness to embrace it’s bravery. I have a niece who was always confident in …